{"id":17356,"date":"2025-08-24T13:18:39","date_gmt":"2025-08-24T13:18:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/imsfund.com\/?p=17356"},"modified":"2025-08-24T13:18:39","modified_gmt":"2025-08-24T13:18:39","slug":"why-i-make-time-for-lunch-with-someone-new-every-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/imsfund.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/24\/why-i-make-time-for-lunch-with-someone-new-every-day\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I Make Time for Lunch With Someone New Every Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n    Opinions expressed by Entrepreneur contributors are their own.  <\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Your network is your net worth. Heard that before? I&#8217;ve said it for years because I&#8217;ve lived it. The right connection can change your life. The right introduction can change your business.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is that most people think <a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/leadership\/5-ways-to-network-your-way-to-business-growth-and-wealth\/467864\" rel=\"\" target=\"_self\">networking<\/a> means working the room, shaking 50 hands and walking out with a stack of business cards. I used to think that too \u2014 until I realized the most valuable connections happen one-on-one.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s where <i>Lunch with Legends<\/i> came from.<\/p>\n<p>Every weekday, I have lunch with someone new. Sometimes it&#8217;s an investor. Sometimes it&#8217;s a founder. Sometimes it&#8217;s a friend of a friend I&#8217;m meeting for the first time when they slide into the booth. The goal isn&#8217;t to pitch. It&#8217;s not to sell. It&#8217;s to connect because everyone&#8217;s happier with good food and good company.<\/p>\n<p><b>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/growing-a-business\/the-10-commandments-of-networking-you-need-to-know\/455859\" rel=\"\" target=\"_self\">The 10 Commandments of Networking You Need to Know<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Why meals are the secret weapon<\/h2>\n<p>Meetings are formal. Lunch is real. At lunch, no one&#8217;s watching the clock. No one&#8217;s hiding behind slides or an agenda. Food slows you down.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s when you get the truth. You hear about the deal they&#8217;re chasing. The challenge they can&#8217;t solve. The goal they&#8217;ve been sitting on because they don&#8217;t know where to start.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve learned more over a plate of tacos than I ever have at a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/growing-a-business\/how-to-improve-your-relationships-both-personally-and\/454062\" rel=\"\" target=\"_self\">conference table<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>How it started<\/h2>\n<p>When I was starting in real estate, I worked networking events like it was my job \u2014 because it was. I&#8217;d collect a pile of business cards, follow up with everyone, etc. One day, someone told me, &#8220;Forget the crowd. Take one person to lunch.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It clicked. The best connections are personal, not rushed.<\/p>\n<p>That first lunch turned into a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/leadership\/my-success-felt-hollow-until-i-made-this-pivotal\/492625\" rel=\"\" target=\"_self\">connection that shifted my career<\/a>. Not because I asked for anything, but because we built trust through conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Since then, <i>Lunch with Legends<\/i> has been my daily habit. Networking isn&#8217;t about keeping score. It&#8217;s about showing up ready to help. Instead of leading with, &#8220;Here&#8217;s what I do,&#8221; I ask, <i>&#8220;What&#8217;s on your plate \u2014 literally and figuratively \u2014 and how can I help?&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>That changes everything.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>People remember you<\/b><b>,<\/b> not as &#8220;the guy from lunch&#8221; but as the person who introduced them to their next hire or shared an idea that unlocked a solution.<\/li>\n<li><b>The conversation flows.<\/b> You&#8217;re not pitching. You&#8217;re listening.<\/li>\n<li><b>Opportunities come back around.<\/b> When you help without expecting anything, your name comes up in rooms you&#8217;re not even in.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>What it looks like in practice<\/h2>\n<p>Last week, I had lunch with people in completely different industries. None of them were &#8220;prospects&#8221; in the traditional sense. But in every conversation, I found a way to connect them to someone else who could help. A manufacturer. A mentor. A friend.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t have to force those opportunities. They came up naturally because I was paying attention.<\/p>\n<p><b>Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/growing-a-business\/struggling-to-find-new-clients-use-the-lumberjack\/494356\" rel=\"\" target=\"_self\">This &#8216;Lumberjack Strategy&#8217; Helps Me Find New Clients Quickly \u2014 and With Way Less Effort<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<h2>How to host your own Lunch With Legends<\/h2>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need a big title or a fancy budget. You need consistency.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>One lunch. One new person. Every weekday.<\/b> Could be a friend-of-a-friend, a young professional looking for guidance or someone you&#8217;ve been meaning to meet.<\/li>\n<li><b>Keep it casual.<\/b> You will see me at the same five places. I have my rotation down. If it ain&#8217;t broke, don&#8217;t fix it.<\/li>\n<li><b>Listen more than you talk.<\/b> People will tell you what they need if you give them space.<\/li>\n<li><b>Follow up with value.<\/b> If you can help, do it right away.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>The selfie rule<\/h2>\n<p>Every <i>Lunch with Legends<\/i> ends with a selfie. It&#8217;s not about ego. It&#8217;s about memory. That photo is a bookmark. Months later, I can scroll back and remember, &#8216;<i>Oh yeah, she was looking for a podcast producer. I know someone now.&#8217;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a fun ritual that makes the moment feel intentional, and it keeps the connection alive.<\/p>\n<p>Networking is a long play. Not every lunch needs to turn into a deal. Some people I&#8217;ve met only once. Others have become friends, partners or clients years later. The value <a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/living\/this-is-what-it-actually-means-to-show-up-both\/459051\" rel=\"\" target=\"_self\">comes from showing up consistently<\/a>, building trust and connecting people. That&#8217;s how your network grows in both size and strength.<\/p>\n<h2>Why food works for networking<\/h2>\n<p>There&#8217;s something about a shared meal that breaks barriers fast.<\/p>\n<p>When you eat with someone, you&#8217;re both just people deciding between fries or salad. It&#8217;s human. It&#8217;s disarming. It sets the stage for a real conversation instead of a surface-level exchange.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why <i>Lunch with Legends<\/i> works. It turns networking into something people actually look forward to. Who doesn&#8217;t want to break bread and learn something? It&#8217;s worth it every time.<\/p>\n<h2>It&#8217;s your move<\/h2>\n<p>Think of one person you&#8217;ve been meaning to meet. Invite them to lunch this week.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t overthink it. Don&#8217;t make it about what you need. Make it about showing up, asking good questions and leaving them better than you found them.<\/p>\n<p>And yes \u2014 selfie required.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"first-letter:float-left first-letter:text-8xl first-letter:pr-1 first-letter:-mt-1 first-letter:font-black first-letter:text-gray-500 prose prose-blue max-w-3xl text-lg leading-relaxed mb-12\">\n<p>Your network is your net worth. Heard that before? I&#8217;ve said it for years because I&#8217;ve lived it. The right connection can change your life. The right introduction can change your business.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is that most people think <a href=\"https:\/\/www.entrepreneur.com\/leadership\/5-ways-to-network-your-way-to-business-growth-and-wealth\/467864\" rel=\"\" target=\"_self\">networking<\/a> means working the room, shaking 50 hands and walking out with a stack of business cards. 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