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Most entrepreneurs<\/a> spend a lot of time thinking about networking<\/a>, and it makes sense. Industry events, conferences, panels, coffee meetings and dinners can lead to customers, partners, hires and investors that would never come through a cold channel.<\/p>\n But I think many founders misunderstand what kind of networking actually pays off.<\/p>\n In my view, the best networking is a byproduct of doing excellent work, serving customers well and becoming known for something specific. When that happens, the right relationships tend to find you. Investors<\/a> reach out because the company is working. Customers refer you because the experience was great. Other operators want to meet you because you\u2019ve built something worth understanding. The strongest networks rarely come from handing out the most business cards. They come from trust<\/a> earned again and again over time.<\/p>\n Networking can become a distraction, especially early on. It can look like spending time at panels and conferences hoping one meeting will fix the underlying challenge of building the business, while the fundamentals, such as the product, customer experience and follow-up, aren\u2019t where they need to be.<\/p>\n The uncomfortable truth is that no amount of networking will make up for a weak product, inconsistent service or a lack of customer trust<\/a>. If the product isn\u2019t working, more introductions usually won\u2019t fix it. If customers don\u2019t feel taken care of, more surface-level relationships won\u2019t create a lasting business.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve been there myself. A coffee meeting can feel productive<\/a> because it creates motion. You had a conversation, made a new contact and maybe got some advice. But motion isn\u2019t progress, and it\u2019s easy to confuse the two when the real work is harder to face.<\/p>\n For a founder, the real work might be talking to customers, improving the product, tightening the business model or making a hard hiring decision. These tasks may not feel as exciting as meeting new people, but they\u2019re usually what make networking work later.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to dismiss relationships altogether. I\u2019ve benefited enormously from a core group of founder friends, and that\u2019s very different from general networking.<\/p>\n These are people who know me, understand my business and have lived through enough of the founder journey that I can be honest with them in ways that are harder with employees, investors or board members. They understand the pressure of making decisions with incomplete information, being responsible for other people\u2019s livelihoods and pushing forward when the answer isn\u2019t obvious. Peers like that challenge your thinking and share what they\u2019ve learned, which is incredibly valuable.<\/p>\n What makes these relationships work is depth, trust and shared context. They aren\u2019t random contacts collected at events. They\u2019re people who have seen how you work, understand what you\u2019re building and have a reason to stay invested in your progress.<\/p>\n For some people, that network already exists through school, past companies, former colleagues or years in the same industry. Others have to build it more intentionally.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re an early founder<\/a> without a real network, I recommend spending time in a high-talent environment before starting your own company. Work at a great startup. Join a team with excellent engineers, operators, salespeople and product thinkers. Learn how strong people work, build trust with them and form relationships based on doing hard things together.<\/p>\n The same principle applies in any industry: the best relationships come from real collaboration and follow-through. Take real estate. The agents with the strongest referral networks usually aren\u2019t the ones at every event. They\u2019re the ones who make the lender\u2019s job easier, communicate well with attorneys and vendors, and protect the client experience when a deal gets stressful. Over time, people remember who made the work smoother and who handled pressure well.<\/p>\n Targeted outreach still has value when it\u2019s done well. If you reach out to someone a few years ahead of you, in a relevant market, with a specific reason for wanting their perspective, many people will respond. Most founders had help along the way, and there\u2019s a natural instinct to pay it forward when a request feels genuine.<\/p>\n A thoughtful, specific question will usually get a better response than a vague request to \u201cpick your brain.\u201d Someone who studies how another founder built their business and asks about one relevant decision is far more likely to make a real connection than someone sending the same message to 50 people.<\/p>\n Follow-through is what turns that first conversation into something meaningful. When someone asks for advice, acts on it, reports back on what happened and keeps the other person updated, the relationship changes. That\u2019s the kind of networking that works: specific, earned and grounded in action.<\/p>\n The best network is usually a byproduct of doing the work so well that people want to be close to it. Build something strong, serve people well, follow through and become known for a clear standard. The relationships that matter will follow.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Most entrepreneurs<\/a> spend a lot of time thinking about networking<\/a>, and it makes sense. Industry events, conferences, panels, coffee meetings and dinners can lead to customers, partners, hires and investors that would never come through a cold channel.<\/p>\n But I think many founders misunderstand what kind of networking actually pays off.<\/p>\n In my view, the best networking is a byproduct of doing excellent work, serving customers well and becoming known for something specific. When that happens, the right relationships tend to find you. Investors<\/a> reach out because the company is working. Customers refer you because the experience was great. Other operators want to meet you because you\u2019ve built something worth understanding. The strongest networks rarely come from handing out the most business cards. They come from trust<\/a> earned again and again over time.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\nThe problem with networking before you have traction<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Why founder friendships are different<\/strong><\/h2>\n
How to build the network that actually matters<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Targeted outreach can work<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Key Takeaways<\/h2>\n
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